Ok-at my age-I should know better (late 30`s)-but this situation is causing me a lot of pain-and I need serious advice please.
I am in a long standing relationship-but I don`t feel the same for him as I did years ago-how can I rekindle my old feelings to make it work again?
He isn`t affectionate or passionate towards me anymore and I feel really lonely.
The flip-side us I have fallen in love with a friend who lives a long way away-I think he has feelings for me too-but he is also in a realtionship-trubled one-but it`s still a relationship-and it`s with another friend of ours-so I certainly cannot pursue him at the present-I would not hurt my friend or my partner that way.
I feel that because I am protecting everyone else`s feelings though-it`s me who is getting hurt-How on earth do i forget the guy I have fallen in love with,and re-fall in love with my partner that I no longer feel attracted to ?
Serious advice only please.
Thanks.
2007-11-03
00:13:19
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