I am married and have 3 children. My husband has a very serious substance abuse problem and it is affecting our marriage and the lives of our children. Even though I have been with him for 14 years, it has always been a problem, which now is MUCH worse. I tried getting him help and he refused. He told me that "I can't control him or what he does and he is going to continue to get high regardless of what I say". I am not trying to control him at all, I am trying to help him for the sake of our marriage and our children. He is not the same person when he is getting high, he mistreats me and the children. When I gave him an ultimatum and told him its over if he continues, he said "oh well then, I guess it will be over", is this because he wants out of the marriage or is it the drug addiction talking?? Please help.......
2007-11-02
05:55:23
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