Whenever a question of spending money comes up, my wife asks for my input. Then, if I show reluctance to spend, she gets angry and recites a long litany of whatever wrongs I may have done or seemed to have done. She is always sure to bring up any spending I might have done on myself and always at least doubles the amount I actually spent when talking about it. If I provide proof that she is inaccurate, she gets even angrier at me. We are always short of money--ALWAYS short of money, and it's always my fault, according to her. Not because I spend but because I never make enough money--she can buy a chinchilla because she "needs" it. It wasn't my decision to have my overtime hours reduced, but it's my fault, and she resented me not being at home when working the overtime. She complains to me at how the house is a mess but refuses to do any housework, herself, because I'm supposed to be "equal" to her in housework as well as working overtime. Is she insane?
2007-11-02
05:49:25
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Yarpzargle
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Marriage & Divorce