Every payday I have been putting money into a seperate account as sort of an emergency fund or to pay for things just in case the other account was low. I used this money to pay for all four of our children's b-day parties, bought him clothes that he needed and used it to pay bills that otherwise we did not have the money for. The thing is I did not tell my husband that we had this account, this was something I did without his knowledge for a kind of sense of security.
He found the bank statement last night and says that I have lied to him because I did not tell him about it, and now he says that he cannot believe anything I say, and he does not think that this marriage will work and say he may want a divorce. I told him that I did not lie, I just did not tell him. I have not bought anything for myself with this money, in fact I have not bought any new clothes for mself in over two years and I just had a baby last year. Does this really show cause for a divorce? HELP!!!!!!
2007-10-22
01:04:33
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