ok this guy i know has been texting me. we are not going out. i dont even fancy him.(hes older than me)...we just train together... we were going to meet up for training and then he texted me to say he couldnt go (hes been doing this for a while).. a couple of hours later he said he could-but it would have been too late for me to get ready.. (he was probably only covering himself)..anyway- i didnt reply to either of those texts as i was annoyed.. the other day, he texted me with a joke.(was this 2 get n2 my good books again??)...i ignored that last txt can you please explain his behavoiur?!!......i would completely ignore him but i want more training and he knows this.. i feel as if im chasing after a carrott..could he be doing this to put me off from doing ne more training.. its easier and probably funnier for him to mess with my head-get me pissed off so i wont want to train with him.. rather than being honest and saying look i dont want u to train with me nemore
2007-10-22 01:10:58 · 11 answers · asked by jaffacakesaresogood 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
would it be possible that hes likes me and is playing hard to get?? OMG THIS is soo annoying its like a great big puzzle in my head
2007-10-22 01:22:19 · update #1
i asked him 3/4 times if he was sure he wanted train me- surely ifs hes so good at lieing about being unavailable for training he could have told me a little lie from the start!?!?!
2007-10-22 01:33:08 · update #2
It sounds like he likes you and he's playing head games with you. I don't know whether he wants to train with you anymore or not. My advice is start looking for somebody else to train with. Also let him know you're looking and tell him it's because he's doing the things you described in your question. If you're serious about your training these stupid games have to be frustrating. After you tell him he will either clean up his act or say okay. Then you'll have your answer to whether he wants to train with you or not. In either case I would find someone new to train with. Good luck!
2007-10-22 01:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by mjm52 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you just care more about this training than he does. I think this guy of yours has a "star disease", he wants to be the one to call all the shots. He doesnt want you to go away, but doesnt care enough to do anything to keep you. Dont let him treat you like a doormat, which is what he wants in the long run - find someone else to train with.
2007-10-22 01:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes u and doesn't know how to tell u,and he wants u to paled him ,in other words for u to show him some time of interest,and age is just a number is how young or old u really feel,if this really bothers u ask Ur training to change the person cause he makes u uncomfortable
2007-10-22 03:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your 'gut instinct' deep inside,tell you about the situation?look at the evidence! Are you still um-ing and ah-ing about whether or not to throw caution to the wind and perhaps let the start of a new friendship have beginnings.The issue is all about tuning your radar to knowing what is genuinely really good for you!
2007-10-22 01:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres two options if he likes u hes playing hard to get or maybe hes shy and dosnt know how to approach u without interfering with training. maybe he can sense u dont like hime so hes a little thrown off so hes debating wiether to shop up or not and if its worth it. but in the end if hes does want to meet up with u he has decided it worth it that ur worth it.
2007-10-22 01:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why waste a while ? in case your merely finding for a coach you may surely discover it to be a unfavourable function if the guy won't be able to seem to coach you i might think of you may choose some one you're able to count on...,yet i think of it would be the comparable answer in case you have been finding to have a romantic relationship with this guy or woman in case you could no longer count on him to coach you why might you opt to this point him...looser in my opinion ..in line with danger you opt to chase carrot's
2016-10-04 08:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth,frankness and mutual respect are essential components in any friendship.If he has no respect for your training schedule and does not care to keep his own words, you may no longer depend on him.Since the training has importance in your career and your life, get some other reliable partner and concentrate on it.
2007-10-22 02:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he doesnt have the time to train wth you then its ok you'll get some one else to train with. If he is into you he'll probobly say sorry and clean up his act. If he continues then get someone else to train with.
2007-10-22 01:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by some 1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So why haven't you asked him? Asked him and if you don't get the answer you want, then let him be
2007-10-22 01:18:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he's a player hon, you beware of him, o.k.? Have a great day.
2007-10-22 01:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋