All categories - 20 October 2007

its my 4th day with it and i have a bit of swelling around my piercing is this normal or should i look for professional advice ?
im cleaning it with antibacterial soap and sometimes salt water
the swelling started after i slept on it by mistake is there maybe a risk of infection ?

2007-10-20 18:34:55 · 4 answers · asked by sergio 1 in First Aid

My fiance' and I went our separate way a little while ago, we split on mutual terms, no cheating, hate etc....but now I have this problem, she has a sister whom I always thought was very attractive and even had fantasized about several times in the past, of course I never acted on them knowing the problems it would have caused so our relationship basically was that of in-laws as we were going to be.
Since my fiance' and I split up I have seen her sister out several times and we always talk very friendly, but I found out that she has always been attracted towards me and never acted on it like myself.
I really am not sure what to do here, we both have stated how we feel towards one another and I honestly don't think anything would be wrong with us going forward in dating, yet a part of me feels like I would be cheating on my ex with her sister still, I have spoken of this to several friends, I suppose I just wanted to get someone elses opinion who doesn't know me nor her.
Thank you.

2007-10-20 18:34:25 · 16 answers · asked by CuriousTiger77 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-20 18:34:01 · 2 answers · asked by suhana 3 in Other - Entertainment

it used to come a long time ago. like in late 80's or early 90's . aliens are disguised as humans and they are trying to multiply . when then want to kill someone a hand sticks out of their stomachs. does anyone know the name of this tv drams series ? thanks

2007-10-20 18:33:54 · 5 answers · asked by Salman Hashmi 3 in Drama

I have found the church to be very limiting in this the never ending facet of ones life. Where do we go? To whom do we see?

I hate to get rash but I must not be stuck with having to do the boogie dance on my bed! There must be an answer! Perhaps some sort of diet or cream?

2007-10-20 18:33:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've posted several questions asking various things like how to talk to girls, ask a girl out, etc...I'm 15 sort of overweight,im a little short,unathletic,smart,nice,a good person,very funny,a great guitarist and whenever i talk to anyone(if i can get over my initial shyness)they will almost always end up my friend.So why,then,have i yet to find one girl i like that feels the same way about me.Fat people get girls too,so do people with faces that have more zits than skin,and i barely have any.Im a lot funnier than the average guy and can make almost anyone laugh easily,but any girl i like im pretty sure doesnt feel the same way about me.I was getting into this one girl who was a friend of one of my friends. I hadnt met her, but wed seen pics of each other and talked through facebook, she sed i was cute, she thought i was reely funny,she was single,but my frend talked to her an dshe sed she doesnt like me, Why?! Am i cursed or sumthing? Every time this happens, why?

2007-10-20 18:33:20 · 35 answers · asked by Gordo_e_Gringo7 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a person who likes to plan, or help plan, my own party's- birthdays, my wedding shower, etc. Leaving it up to other people is hard for me, so I was wondering: is it okay to help plan my baby shower? If not, do you think the host of the baby shower should ask me what type of "theme," or food I would like served?

2007-10-20 18:33:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Etiquette

why are some people shallow? and not willing to communicate and process through a divorce?

2007-10-20 18:32:49 · 5 answers · asked by Peter M 3 in Sociology

Am I a good person if not how can I be better?
I dont swer
I dont Have sex(I dont have any plans to!I know that is strage but, I think that is what god would have wanted.)
I pray to god
I give to the poor
I dont smoke
...........................................Bad things I do.......................................
I talk about people
I dont go to sunday school
I lie to get out of my prob.
I sometimes scream at my mom and dad

But, dont we all Do this.......No one is like god said we should me whe we get down to it...Right?

2007-10-20 18:31:26 · 25 answers · asked by Bill Gates's Bigesst Fan! 1 in Religion & Spirituality

Im not married i dont have a girlfriend, but i think America is as only as strong as the family is strong and divorce in America is a way of life single mother homes are very common...will it always be like this and why has it comes to this does the blame fall on any one thing? if youve been divorced or been married for awhile id apprecaite if you could explain this to me since im not in your shoes and havent experienced anything like this...if there is any way that marriage in our country can be fixed what do you think it is...thanks.

2007-10-20 18:31:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think I might have seen a young flamingo in Port Coquitlam, BC, Canada. Do flamingoes live in this area?

2007-10-20 18:31:13 · 2 answers · asked by nittin 1 in Zoology

With us guys attraction is very simple. If a woman looks good, she has sex appeal.. period. But with women, its very different. A guy can be a 10 and have no sex appeal or he can be very ugly and have sex appeal.

Seems like women find sex appeal in certain personality or character traits in men.

I'm sure its different for every women, but what turns YOU on about a man? What does he have to have to give him sex appeal vs. "just a friend".??

2007-10-20 18:30:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Gender Studies

2007-10-20 18:30:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Mathematics

I talked to the person on the phone who saw my husband making out with some woman in Walmart's parking lot, her description of his cloths and vehicle matched.

After he came home with a Walmart plastic bag, I kicked him in the nuts and proceeded to grill him for an hour about what happened, yet he denied everything saying it was a misunderstanding.

I packed up some cloths and I'm now at my brother's and his wife's house. My husband came over finally admitting to kissing this lady and in tears, he was begging me to forgive him. Being angry, I told my brother send him on his way.

I asked my brother and his wife what I should do and they said for me to do what I think is right and I can stay as long as I need.

The problem is, not only did he hurt me, but he also humiliated me since all my friends now know. I wondered if I could forgive him, yet when think of him I'm disgusted and have no trust anymore. I can't see myself going back.

Am I being to harsh? What would you do?

2007-10-20 18:30:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-20 18:30:27 · 10 answers · asked by Ťango 3 in Religion & Spirituality

2007-10-20 18:29:57 · 11 answers · asked by G's Random Thoughts 5 in Religion & Spirituality

It is apparent he still liked her while he was with me.

2007-10-20 18:29:51 · 15 answers · asked by Alex J 3 in Singles & Dating

there's this co-worker that i dont really get along with, she talks trash about me to everyone and lies about me to our manager who scolds me for things i didnt even do, and the worst part is; i've been nothing but nice to this co-worker, i dont talk trash to her i dont bad mouth her but she still gets me in trouble, its driving me nuts and i cant take it anymore, i am afraid that she might lie about me enough to the point where they fire me, that would be the worst, what do i do?

2007-10-20 18:29:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I just heard bill o'reilly say on his show that he wished we never went into Iraq
I think it was Fridays show where he was discussing bombing being down and the problem with Turkey

2007-10-20 18:29:30 · 6 answers · asked by ayla243900 1 in Current Events

2007-10-20 18:29:19 · 2 answers · asked by don1862 4 in Renting & Real Estate

every time we go on a walk we collect pine cones. some i leave outsdie if i can but i have a few in my house. since he keeps collecting them what is something i can do with them. seasonal, holiday, whatever.

2007-10-20 18:29:18 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Hobbies & Crafts

2007-10-20 18:28:34 · 13 answers · asked by loki_theunholy666 1 in NASCAR

Why don't they go to Hospitals and heal everyone there?

2007-10-20 18:28:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

I'm not sure if I should major in graphic arts or graphic design. What can you do for a career in graphic arts and graphic design? What are the similarities and differences between these two?

2007-10-20 18:28:28 · 5 answers · asked by Staci L 1 in Drawing & Illustration

Have you seen it? Do you know where i can get the sketch "bookshop" (internet sites would be good)? And if you saw it, what was Marty Feldman wearing? I'm doing this scetch in drama and i dont know what to wear? any ideas for a costume?

2007-10-20 18:28:24 · 1 answers · asked by Stephamie 3 in Comedy

whenever i see this guy he stares into my eyes, and i cant help but stare back,, and then we both cant stop smiling LOL why is this?

2007-10-20 18:28:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-20 18:28:16 · 7 answers · asked by fourleafdel 1 in Astronomy & Space

I tried to set up an appt. in 2004 for them to come and pick up the motorcyle because I couldn't make the payments anymore but they never came when I asked them to and they didn't pick it up and its now almost 2008 and I still have possesion of it and haven't made a payment since 2004, I have moved since then and it is in storage in california and now I live in WA, collections keep calling and we keep saying the same thing that there is now way for us to get there and give it to them...what are our options with this? What can happen?

2007-10-20 18:28:03 · 2 answers · asked by Jewelz 2 in Other - Business & Finance

We want to vacation, I can get free Hyatt stays, but where do we begin? Just mom and 2 teens, haven't taken a vacation with them for years, (they have locally with their dad).Please , any advise on travel, can finally afford to do it and want it to be memorable. So not rich, just want to feel the lifestyle of Europe.

2007-10-20 18:27:59 · 1 answers · asked by pickle 2 in Other - Destinations