My wife and I have been married for two and a half years, together for over 4. We have a 3 year old son together and two boys (8 and 5) from her previous marriage. I am 30, she is 28.
I found out earlier this year that she had been cheating on me. After some back and forth, she says that she does love me and wants to stay. She said she was confused, but now knows that I am the one she wants to be with. She says that I should believe her because if she wanted to be with the other guy, she would just leave me. I know this guy and I know that he is deeply in love with her and willing and able to take care of her. So I dont think she is with me for security or financial reasons.
The problem is that she still goes out with her girlfriends almost once a week until late. She says she won't give up her friends for anything, but her frequent going out was the first sign of trouble. I wanted her to be more independent at first because she was very clingy, but now I want the old her.
2007-10-19
17:36:37
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