When she was 15, she went through a difficult phase, got rebellious, messed up, joined bad crowds. She disobeyed, lied. sometimes was mean to us and to her lil sister. We had to give her a severe punishment. She apologized, but we sttuck with her punishment anyway. What made her really devastated is we told her we couldn't trust her, though she apologized and begged for our trust, and it took us some months to trust her again. This broke her spirit. Today, at 24,still single, a brilliant professional, great young woman, graduated in Chemistry, she hasn't changed her mind and still thinks we were cruel, didn't act as loving parents and no parent should ever say to their kids what we said to her. She decided to write us off her life, says we bring her sad and painful memories and she'd rather forget about her life w/ us. Actually, the last time we talked, a year ago, it was terrible. For 10 years we've been devastated, but she's an adult and I don't see any chance of reconciliation
2007-10-18
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