put up with in my relationship.
been married over 4 yrs, together over 5. Things were great in the beginning but have deteriated over time. I feel no support, get no support either emotional, mental or physical (financial)
I more than "earn my keep" around the house as I do everything here, I am the housekeeper, laundress, gardener, cook, secretary, security guard and organizer of his life. In return I get a roof over my head, thrift store clothes and money to buy groceries so I can cook dinner for him every night. I am left alone all day, cannot afford to go anywhere as I get no money to spend on myself. I dont have friends, the ones I had before I got married are afraid to come down to where I live now (city with crime). I am studying for a degree now and hope that I can get work after I am done. The husband ignores me for the most part, unless he needs me to do something for him and that is depressing. I feel used, abused and taken advantage of. Problem? I still love him!
2007-10-11
05:53:14
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flyingdove
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Marriage & Divorce