My husband and I have been married for almost 12 years, we have 2 children together and are at risk for losing it all for various reasons..... 1st and foremost I believe it is a trust issue, we have both been through some troubling times with possible infidelity (talking to other people while we were still married), we were separated but got back together and tried making it work. We have been at this for a little over 5 years now & things always come up with him again constantly reminding me of what happened.... Now the latest issue is the fact that he discovered how much money we owe in credit card debt & totally freaked out. I have always been the one to handle the finances in the realtionship & I never really told him we owed 5,000 + dollars in a credit card and he just recently found out, he now feels deceived & I could understand that to a certain point, he knows what all the charges are from he just feels left out in the dark by not knowing our finances, please see other post
2007-10-08
01:29:46
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