My boyfriend turns off his phone for days on end without telling me that he's going to do it, or make spur of the moment weekend trips without informing me or (worse) inviting me. Since Wednesday, he has been incommunicado (its Sunday night). I would have been fine if he'd just sent me an email or text saying "My cell phone will be switched off for the next few days, I need to get into my book/some space. Please don't worry." Six seconds of his life, vs. hours of mine lost in worry
I needed him today when I got stranded somewhere, and couldn't get in touch. Last night he sent me a paultry text (after three days of trying to get in touch) to say he was "all right". I wasn't alright today, when I needed him. I'm at my wits end with this behaviour. I find it so offensive: he thinks I overreact. My worry is that he knows how much it upsets me and does it anyway. I think I should walk, even though I love him. Would that be an emotional overreaction?
2007-09-30
02:35:48
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