We married very quickly after we met and have been married 2 years, it has been extremely rocky and now I am also taking care of my 74yo father who has lung cancer (in the hospital with pneumonia since Friday night but will be home today as he is better). We moved to Oregon to take care of him and then he moved in with us to make it easier. I helped my mom through liver cancer 8 years ago as she died.
Anyhow, back to us, it has to do with respect. He has at times chosen his friends before me, he cheated, (once that I know of, more times in my head, where is the trust),he threatens to leave when we argue,etc, intimidates.
Sounds crazy to me, why would I want to be together, I know I cause as many arguments as he does (although he says if I would just be happy everything would be great). I feel utterly betrayed and I was wondering how I could get him to see these feelings of mine and how hurt I am and how can I feel that he places my person on an equal level with his, respect
2007-09-25
02:16:30
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