my husband baby's the kids really bad when they are bad, he baby's them all the time, but when they are bad and throw tantrums and scream, becaus they don't want to go to bed he will hug them and kiss them and tell them that he will buy them things if they stop. it is really putting a wear on our relationship because i dont agree with it at all, i think by rewarding the kids with things when they act out, will make them think that everytime they are bad they will get what they want. and it makes me look like the bad guy all the time, because i don't play into it. and they get punished for doing those things with me. and that's when i get the "i hate you's" and if i tell our kids to do something and they throw a tantrum, he will tell them they don't have to do it, and he will do it. i really can't deal with it anymore, and if it continues i will leave so please HELP!!!!
2007-09-24
19:31:43
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