I have been with my husband for 8 years. We have 2 children 4 and 7. I work and do most of the childcare and feel quite resentful as feel taken for granted. I try to speak to my husband about this but he does not talk, he either walks out of the door and goes to the pub or tells me to move on and be more understanding. A yr ago I found out he had spent around £15,000 over a period of 2 yrs without telling me, this included money that I was saving into a joint account. I am deeply hurt and have lst respect and trust for him. When I try to talk about this he either shouts or tells me to get over it or leave. I am so, so fed up and unhappy. I am not sure what to do! He refuses to go for counselling and tells me that the problem is my behaviour. It feels as if he is always turning the blame on me and I am at a loss as to what to do. How can I save this?! Is it best to leave now and move on with my life? I feel alone in the relationship.....
2007-09-16
09:10:51
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Stephanie C
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Marriage & Divorce