Some ladies made catty remarks to me at church today, like I was some hussy or something. I just like to wear low cut blouses. I'm not forcing anyone to look. I just think they're cute plus they are nice and comfortable, they give my bald headed babies some room to breath.
2007-09-16 09:11:03 · 33 answers · asked by Ask Donna 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Cleavage is a virtue. =0)
2007-09-16 09:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Cleavage in itself, is not a sin. But you want to be respectful to God and the other members of church. Alot of people in church might be struggling with sexual sin, homosexuality, perversion, pornography and other sins so to flaunt your boobies in church--a place where they think they might be safe from viewing such things--can be hindering, you know? The Bible also talks about modesty, so brush up on your reading. Try to read the Bible everyday, and the Holy Spirit will give you the discernment and knowledge. Also generally, as a Christian, you want to set an example. So decency is key, a little bit of cleavage might not be distracting, but use common sense and courtesy. If you see people (male or female) looking at your chest instead of your face, than chances are they are distracting and not modest. P.S. The ladies should tell you this in private in a loving way, and not call you out like you're a whore...that is also un-Christian like. But we're all human, so that shouldn't suprise you. No human is perfect and free of sin!
2007-09-16 09:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by urbanologie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If two beautiful blonde twins are walking by next to a construction site, one is wearing revealing clothes while the other one is dressed modestly, who do you think will attract the attention of the construction workers? Who would get the whistles?
Ultimately the most dignified ones are the ones who do not have their body for show. Men go to nude clubs and pay money to see naked females. Those who are cheap show their wares for free, Those who value dignity have themselves properly covered.
The most covered are the most dignified. The least covered are the least dignified. Everyone should choose the level they deserve. What do you think about that?
2007-09-16 09:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by NQV 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing more appealing to the eye than some nice cleavage, but I think going a couple of hours with your babies covered up is no big deal. Remember that you don't have to force us men to look, we can't help but notice.
2007-09-16 09:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by sadbutyou 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1. One should dress appropriately when attending services at a church. If you don't like the dress code where you attend... go elsewhere.
2. A second point... If you dress like a s lut, expect to be treated like one... sorry that's just the facts of life. You women need to learn that men are pigs and go for the lowest common denominator. This "I should be able to dress the way I want" is a bunch of crap.
2007-09-16 09:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Toe cleavage is hot too!
Sin? I don't think so unless you are dilberately trying to get negative attention from women and lust glances from men.
Showing breast cleavage at church is kinda testy so if you do it expect remarks and looks.
I don't think church is a place to make fashion statements.
2007-09-16 09:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by theladygeorge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No cleavage is not a sin. This is purely their opinion. I love the movie Erin Brockovitch, she wore revealing clothes and helped a whole community.
2007-09-16 09:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by Pixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-09-16 09:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by jonathin l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They shouldn't have come up to you and scolded you for your shirt. So, you like low cut shirts? So do I. They're more comfortable, and I don't see how it's horrible as long as you're not flaunting it and basically showing everything. Low cut shirts are fine for church, as long as they're not too revealing. You can ease up a little bit outside of church.
2007-09-16 09:15:24 · answer #9 · answered by Ellophante 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not a sin unless you are trying to tempt someone I guess---but perhaps in bad taste -Give your "babies" a bonnet for an hour on Sunday !
2007-09-16 09:27:29 · answer #10 · answered by Bemo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a sin. those ladies are jealous that they cant wear those cuz prolly everything will sag LOL but at the least, dont have toooo much cleavage becuz a little more modest attire is appropriate for church
2007-09-16 09:15:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋