so my girl cheated on me 3 months back, and i forgave but didnt forget. now i know she has made great strides in trying her best, but i just dont feel it for her anymore. she is the love of my life, but i also shouldnt have to be looking over my shoulder at what she is doing.
from a woman's point of view, what do you think she is dealing with right now? when i told her what i wanted to do, we talked about it, and she was biting her nails a lot and in the end couldnt even look at me b/c of the tears that was ready to flow. i know i have a spot that she could probably touch and go back to normal....but this has to be the changing point to where i get put first, and not everyone else along with the fact that she might cheat again. if i dont feel anything after this break does that make me a jerk? i need help here! i love her, but at what heartache to me?
2007-09-14
14:22:27
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Marriage & Divorce