One of my best friends had a kind of messy break up with her boyfriend of 5 years. She is trying to make it as clean as possible but its complicated. I knew her boyfriend and even though he is her Ex-boyfriend now I still want to be friends with him! I'm completely neutral, I refuse to pass any information from one party to the other, they have to do that themselves. But my friend seems to have such a problem with it. She broke up with HIM and she doesn't own him! I'm trying to explain that to her nicely but it really seems to bother her a lot that I continue to talk to him. I hope I mentioned everything... but what should I say to her to get my point across without risking our relationship?
Just an FYI: I'm engaged to a guy I've been with for 3 years, so there is no chance of a more than friends relationship with her ex-boyfriend.
2007-09-13
00:32:20
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Veronica
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