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a few months ago i called my best friend a whore because she made a mistake and had a one night stand with someone when she already had a fiance. She definitely flipped out on me and so did her gfs. The reason im so mad at her is cuz i spent alot of time "protecting " her from doing stupid things when she was drunk cuz i hate cheating. I feel like theres no way to get our friendship back cuz we havent talked for 5 months. what do you think. I know i shouldnt have been so hard on her and just forgiven her. Im male by the way

2007-09-13 00:31:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

13 answers

Have you ever been on the other end of a negative comment? It hurts... sometimes it takes a lot of time to heal from it.... especially when it came from someone you really care about. Perhaps you can write her a "from the heart" letter and just put all your feelings in it and why you said what you said. Even if you never mail it, it will make you feel better. But you should mail it. It won't hurt the relationship anymore than it is now, and it may improve it.... 50/50....then just give her some space to process it all and work through it.

2007-09-13 00:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by suisse shoggi 4 · 0 0

You could write her a letter explaining how and why you feel the way you do and that you value her friendship.

Sometimes people do have to make their own mistakes and learn the hardway and I hope for her sake that this has opened her eys and her relationship with her fiance is no longer. One would hope that she has realized that she does not really care for her fiance the way she thought she did if she can have sex with someone else. The other reason that she may not have spoken to you is that she feels ashamed of her actions and doesn't know how to 'get over it' and let's face it, when we stuff up so very badly as she has obviously done, do we really want our friends saying "I told you so" or dragging it up in the future to haunt us again and again. You may never do this but perhaps she doesn't know that.

2007-09-13 00:40:31 · answer #2 · answered by Papooselet 3 · 2 0

Well anyone that cheats when they have someone is a whore so you were right to put her in her place if she cant see that then its her loss as your friend and not yours. You were a great friend to her and tried to protect her but she just didnt listen. She will come back around once she realizes how stupid she was just keep your head up and know you did the right thing.

2007-09-13 00:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by superthunda 3 · 2 1

real, a whore is somebody who sleeps around alot, so i definately do no longer think of you're a sort of!!!! Sounds to me like your friends are purely jealous which you would be able to and DO flirt with adult adult males. Do they flirt with adult adult males as nicely as you do? Or do they locate chatting with adult adult males no longer person-friendly??? in the event that they do then they are probable purely jealous which you get greater guy interest than they do. i does no longer hassle approximately it that lots. yet whilst it would not end quickly, then possibly you ought to think of roughly some new acquaintances????

2016-11-10 07:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

sounds like she doesn't appreciate your support...you were right to say what you thought and shouldn't regret it, she evidently got to you by doing what she did. don't think that just because you havent spoken in months there's no way of getting your friendship back...if you can try talking to her about somethin not to do with what happened and see where you both stand. sometimes people realise that if a friend says something that pisses them off its usually because they care about them

2007-09-13 00:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by eskimo kiss xx 1 · 2 0

dog i know how you feel, i got a gunner that just the same drink makes her act the fool, but you can only protect her so far as for what you said to her names are just names and if she values your relationship then she should forgive you for what you said to her be brave and tell her how you really feel and the situation if anything you keeping it real with her. bless

2007-09-13 02:36:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Accept what you have done and wait for her to return to you..Dont force the issue any further cause then you may never get her back!

2007-09-13 00:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

look at the whole pix its u that has a crush on her because someone else hat that and your jealous stop actin like a captain save a #@e
and tell her how u really feel

2007-09-13 00:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anthony . 2 · 3 1

Erm, saying that actually hurts them very deeply... you cant do much now, wats done is done... accept the fact you just lost your best friend.

2007-09-13 00:43:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

dude what she did doesn't make her a whore it makes her unworthy of being that guys wife.

You could have told her man . I don't think you were wrong. She needed to be put in her place.

2007-09-13 00:37:28 · answer #10 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 2 1

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