Dating for 1yr, my girlfreind and I are in recovery. 13 yrs. for her,19 mo. for me. Divorced for most of her sobriety. Recently her ex has also wanted to get clean and sober, and now attends the same meetings we attend. She's very good at helping anyone who is willing to help themselfs. Her ex is part time employed. She offered him odd jobs around her house to help with monies. Her ex does not have transportation. My girlfreind cares for disabled children and cannot leave her house in the evenings. We talk at night via Instant messaging. One night she messaged that her ex was going to stay the night. I replied:" I did'nt need to here that". She asked If I trusted her. YES I do! Next day we go to her mom's for BBQ. She invited her ex , then told me. Later we dropped her ex off. It was a strange and odd feeling to me. Not in anger but now knowing I was upset, I told her that I would have asked her approval 1st if the roles were reversed. She hasn't spoke to me since, but I've tried.
2007-09-11
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