here is the deal, we were both virgins. i was his first everything pretty much. before him, i've had a long term relationship (1 1/2), but it wasn't that physical (only making out and such). after i ended that relationship, we startedgoing out since the end of senior year in high school, and it's our second year in college now. we've always messed around, did everything except sex and last week, we both had sex..he's 19, i'm 18 now. but he doesn't want to risk having sex anymore because of having a baby...i completely understand and i am not pressuring him or anything, but is it wrong for me to want it? am i just being selfish or is sex not really necessary if you truly love the person?
also, we know about birthcontrol, condoms and all that stuff.
our first time was surprisingly good...he lasted pretty long too.
it's strictly...about the slight chance of having a kid.
any advice?
2007-09-08
18:12:06
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