I don't understand what's wrong with me -I know I am intelligent. I am just after reading some great answers on my question - I realise I don't have a clear judgement. If he hit me once, does it mean that I am in the abusive relationship? Or is it a one-off? You see, I could see how he was controlling and passive-agressive, paranoid. But there were times, when he was nice and thoughtful, - it's sooo confusing. He is smart, loves animals, great at DIY, does not drink, etc. It's like whatever nice he does is cancelled out by his next actions. Say, 5 years later he would finally admit that he was not ready for kid while he was feeding me lies that may be next year we should try for a baby. Plus he never really tells the truth about what's on his mind. How can I stop living in denial? Is there a pill? :)
2007-09-01
14:18:58
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Alyssa Macey
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Marriage & Divorce