I started dating a man that was 50 when I was only 17. Jerry had been married twice & older kids and a few younger ones. I like the time we spent together and he paid a lot of attention to me. I've had a few bf's in high school, always went to the dances and such, but I like my time with the older guy better than the guys my age. I've kept this from my parents because of the age difference. When I turned 18 I decided I want to finally have sex for the 1st time. I told Jerry I wanted to do this on my 18th birthday. Of course he was happy. I went & bought some lingerie & the night of my bday, Jerry & I made love all night. I loved it, however I did get pregnant even though we used protection. I am graduated from HS & on my way to junior college. Jerry offered to help with the costs for me. Will people think less of me for doing this with a man that old? when the baby is born will it be healthy? Jerry also passed a kidney stone before we conceived the baby, thus will the baby get them?
2007-08-30
08:56:43
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