Heres how it happened. I met my wife-who has 2 kids from previous abusive-type relationships. Everything was great. We moved in together-got married. Slowly but surely her real personality came out. I got called ugly, disgusting, she no longer initiated sex. Even our wedding night-she sat with a calculator counting the money. How romantic. I'm 25, shes 26.
She used to apologize, now, she could care less. She is always depressed and never wants sex. If we have sex-I have to promise her a backrub or something-and its obvoious she's not into it. The verbal abuse gets physical sometimes. I am fed up-my patients for ''the girl who got a raw deal by assholes''is gone, and I see her true colors. I've pulled away from the kids and her. We pretty much sleep seperate. Its still our first year of marriage. I have tried everything. Counseling, patients, romance, housework, more time with the kids. Nothing helps. Also-she was spoiled by her Mom her whole life, still is.
2007-08-28
04:03:34
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