My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. We are very serious about this relationship and plan to someday get married. I dont live with her, and probably won't till I get married. Anyways, half of our arguments end up with her screaming at me, making assumptions and exaggerations of ways I feel about her (ie. "so why don't you just break up with me if you hate me so much??"), and just over stupid ****. I try as much as I can to not yell back, but it is really hard to not yell when she is that upset. She does have a self-esteem problem and is very insecure. But I love her with all my heart. I just want to make life easier for the both of us, especially if she and I get married sometime in the future. I am willing to do whatever it takes to make her temper less of a problem. That is really the only problem I have with her. Everything else in our relationship is great. She just somehow needs to stop over-reacting when we argue about something. How can this stop?
2007-08-13
18:01:38
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coolinferno84
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Marriage & Divorce