I've known my best friend since I was 6 years old. (He's gay, just ftr, although we're always told we act like an old married couple). Over the years, it's gotten to the point that we're in a co-dependent relationship, and he's pretty abusive and rages a lot. Normally I just have to deal with it, but occasionally he has threatened me and really scared me. I keep trying to leave, but somehow I always find my way back to him. I even have his initials tattooed on my wrist, he's so much a part of me. I don't really know where he stops and I start anymore; but I do know I don't want to live like this.
How can I get away from him, and the relationship, without getting physically or emotionally torn apart by him, and without weakening and going back? He's always sorry for being such a jerk, and deep down he does love and see me in his future (as a friend, as stated he's gay) but I can't just put up with being a door mat any more.
Help?!
2007-08-01
01:14:26
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Callisto
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