my husband don't want to have any sexual desire. I mean nonexistant. not low, but none. I have tried for 2 years, to get him to talking , just tell me what's wrong? he gives me all the stupidest excuses one after the other such as:
1- I snore, can't breathe through the nose
2- I have headache, backache, oh, now I don't feel very well
3- I am tired, stressed, overwhelmed, thinking,,, worried
4- you're bad, you've made me sad, you've done this, that, be a better wife, and I'll sleep with you
5- It's your fault, sex is not everything, you're sex addict, why is it important anyway?
I must say, his sister and mother are exactly, I mean exactly the same, so it's a repetitive pattern that they are following with their partners, despite the fact that my husband is a man and not a woman.
He doesn't want to go councling, doesn't want to talk about it, doesn't look gay, I haven't found him cheating, so basically, I don't know what to do. Would you cheat?
2007-07-25
02:44:40
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