Can anyone suggest how I can loose my virginity without having sex. I am scared of Aids and Stds?

Answer 1

If you're scared of HIV and STD's, then you have no business losing your virginity. Treasure it...I'd give anything to go back 20 years and have saved it for someone special, rather than just wanting to "get rid of it" or get it over with.

If you're just wanting your hymen broken, like to be able to use a tampon, a doctor can break it for you.

Answer 2

Personally, I don't think you lose your virginity unless you have sexual intercourse. So this question is bogus. You can have sex and be safe from contracting diseases. You should know your partner well, if you're really worried about it, get tested together before you have sex, and always use protection.

And if you use sex toys and don't clean them properly, you can get infections and the such from that....so the statement, "No sex, no diseases/risks" is not something to live by.

Answer 3

if your worried about contracting an std just know your partner. Find out if they have had any partners before, or if they are a virgin. if they have had sex before just know that they have been tested and or used a condom and you should be fine.

Answer 4

Sound like you are asking how you can break your hymen without a sexual partner. Consider purchasing a vibrator and a good sexual lube. If you are asking how to masturbate, it is not my place to give this instruction--consider visiting the following site of a well known sex therapist.
This site is a good free source for education on sexuality.
http://www.talksexwithsue.com/index2.html

Answer 5

it is healthy to be afraid of stds, but there is no way to catch one without having sex. So, if you don't have sex, you remain disease free, and you remain a virgin. The only way to lose "virginity" is to have intercourse.

Answer 6

choose the right partner or use a dildo