I have a terrible, basically non-existant relationship with my father. He mentally abused me for about 8 or 9 years until I basically cut things off with him (when I went off to college). The other day he physically abused me for the first time, at my grandfather's birthday party in front of everyone. I don't want answers such as "just cut him out of your life" "your an adult, just don't talk to him." I know all that, I've already ignored his emails and will not answer the phone if he ever calls and I will avoid future family parties if I know he is going to be there. I miss everyone else but its just not worth it. The reason I want to be legally separated from him is because I know that he has a LOT of debt and when he is gone I don't want anyone chasing after me for the money. I don't want to have to deal with his mistakes when they have nothing to do with me. If there is some secret cash when he dies, I don't want it, I want nothing of his, debt or cash or otherwise.
2007-07-23
09:43:50
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Darlin
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