Married 7 years. Lots of trust issue. 2 children. Love is there, he is a sex addict. It has turned me off so much that sex is almost non existant to me anymore. He walks,talks, breathes sex. He has issues with anger,porn,denial, fondling himself and myself,it seems as if everything is about sex. He seems dirty to me. I hate myself for thinking that about my own husband and father of my kids. I feel as if we would have a good marriage if he would contribute. He says he does,but he can only back it up with financially. I must say he is a great father to our children, but could stand to help out a tad more. I try to tell him I do love him and explain to him what's going on, he blows me off by saying "yeah right". He has messed up several times and I have major trust issues because of this. He plays the victim by saying "well, it hurts that you don't trust me"..and then blows up when I explain why. What's wrong? He seems manipulative. He turns everything around on me. I'm sick of it!
2007-07-23
11:46:31
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