My boyfriend and I have been dating for 11 months. During all this time he has never given me oral sex. He loves to receive, but he doesn't like to give. He told me that he has had unpleasant experience in the past, and that oral sex is just something that he doesn't enjoy, and every time we talk about he gets very upset and we end up fighting over this issue. I told him that oral sex is reciprocal, and that I will stop giving him oral sex. He pretty much doesn't care I stop doing it, so I decided not to give him any more massages. He got very upset and didn't talk to me the whole night, he thought I was punishing him. I jusnt think...why he should receive pleasure from me, if he is not willing to reciprocate? He enjoys messages, just as much I enjoy oral sex. All the man I've been with have given me oral sex. I think this is a very normal part of love making, specialy when you love your partner. I can't force him to do it, but I'm sexually unsatisfy. What can I do?
Jess
2007-07-15
04:10:32
·
29 answers
·
asked by
Anonymous
in
Marriage & Divorce