I've dated lots of men. My ex-fiance and I had a 3-year relationship. I missed him so much. I learned that if I had been more patient, it would have worked out.
Then I hooked up with an old flame. We were best friends, we could talk about anything, and he adored me. I broke up with him because I wanted to marry someone from my native country and someone with more drive.
Then I started dating my husband. We dated 3 months. (We had known eachother about a year before we dated.) He popped the question. I said yes. We had an awesome wedding.
I cannot talk to him. He has limited inter- and intra-personal skills. I'm not attracted to him physically because we don't have a mental connection.
We went to therapy once. He doesn't want to go back.
I married an educated, stable, and tall man, but he doesn't have the inner qualities that I need to make me happy. If I'm more patient and ___ will it work out or should I cut my losses now?
2007-07-11
18:14:46
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Marriage & Divorce