On step-kids? Do we have to be the same as our own kids or we have to treat them different because of their situation ??
My hubby & I have being married for almost 5 yrs he has a son(11yrs) from a previous marriage & I have a daughter ( 6yrs) from a previous marriage & we have 2 kids of our own.. The problem is that when his son is with us he doesn’t obey OUR rules & he either goes back with mom or with my hubby’s parents & he end up doing what he wants.. My hubby says that because he is not full time with him & so as my daughter with her dad we need to treat them different, in a way that they can do or get what they want.. Which I don’t agree because it will not be fair for the others!! I say that our rules @ home need to be follow & that we need to treat them equally !! Is anyone in the same situation or was??? How to solve this ?? I just believe if we do let one do what they want now they will do the same later, & is not like this..CUZ they will jump on us later on !! ADVICE !!
2007-07-06
05:36:49
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