This is something that should have an easy answer but its actually more complicated than it seems. Thankfully this doesn't pertain to me but this seems to be a big problem for a lot of people. The question on the table is, if one spouse totally loses all sex drive (for whatever reason) and only has sex with their spouse a few times a year or never, although its quite unfair to the other spouse is it a basis and "ok" if the spouse-going-without has affairs to satisfy their libido? This always seems to be the cheating man's mantra "I don't get it at home", and some women too, and although its unfair to withhold sexual favors, its not right to cheat either. So what's a person to do? The vows clearly state 'for better or for worse' and having completely opposite sex drives is definitely a bummer but is it an excuse for cheating? I'm kind've on the fence about it personally. I would go w/o or do for myself but if this were a permanent situation, then I just don't know.
2007-06-27
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