I'm 23 and he's 26--- we've been together a long time and we enjoyed smoking weed together, but now that I'm 23 and we're both thinking about marriage, I stopped smoking and he's still doing it. I told him I don't like it that it's time he grows up, I threatened him and all he says is "There are things that I don't approve of you doing either but I wouldn't break up with you over it because I know it makes you happy and it's not like i'm hurting anybody". But I think this is different. When he's high, he just lays there and it's boring like he just had the life sucked out of him---and he smokes like 4-5 times a week.
I love everything else about him. Should I let him go cuz of this after 5 years?
I really don't want to but I don't know what else to do? He just doesn't seem to get it... he thinks I'm making a big deal out of this and he doesn't think this is a problem at all.
2007-06-25
09:26:11
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