There's this guy who I have a major crush on. I used to hate him but now I'm insanely in love with him. He doesn't even know I exist and I want him to ask me out. How do I get him to now I'm interested?
2007-06-25 09:26:15 · 25 answers · asked by ilovechandlercole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hm you cant make someone love you , so you have to make yourslef known is all. start hanging out with him more, invite him to do stuff witha group and then get to know him better , that way if he is not interested you have others there to talk to . good luck
2007-06-25 09:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't make someone LOVE you but if you want his attention and want to let him know you're interested, just try to find something to ask him about or talk to him about. Catch him in the library and ask him if he's ever read a book or how the book he's reading is or such things like that. Even the smallest gesture can envoke a conversation. Once you've got him involved in conversation, be sure to lean towards him and show your interest - maintain eye contact and respond appropriately. If he's not a nincompoop he should get the idea.
2007-06-25 09:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jesi S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and hate are so CLOSE! Maybe he felt that you have hated him and try to avoid you. Ask a friend to make plan double dating with him, if he refuse you will know he is not interested and do not waist time on him. Move on.
2007-06-25 09:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by johann_777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it Chandler Cole you are in love with? Well I would flirt w/ him and once he seems interested I would ask him out. Wear a revealing outfit as well that usually gains some added attention.
2007-06-25 09:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt
2007-06-25 09:28:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should devise a plan to at least meet the guy. if he doesn't know u then there's no way he's going to know you "exist."
Besides it seems as if wat u have is just a crush...i canbet he's cute....anyway, there's more to a guy than is physical attraction.
you said you hated him...do you even know this guy?! then if you do...that's not a bad thing. if u used to treat him badly start changing ur attitude towards him a little bit but not completely...he'll start liking u...trust me.
cutefergie
2007-06-25 09:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow - just be really flirtacious around him and see if you can read his signals or feel his reaction vibe... if he seems into you as well - then it will get easier being around him and soon you'll have the courage to ask him out. But sometimes its hard when you don't know how THEY feel.. so work on finding that out first :)
2007-06-25 09:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him? be nice and develop a friendship first. get to know him and trust him and if he likes you and feels comfortable with you then he'll ask you out. also don't become too buddy buddy with him or he'll only ever think of you as just a friend.
2007-06-25 09:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by cdaco9310 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since ur Avatar is a dude. I'm going 2 say find out if he's gay first.
2007-06-25 09:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would evaluate myself and not try to impress someone to make them love you. It is a needle and a haystack. Just be yourself and the right one will come along.
You are not in love. Love is when you are with someone and you would die for them. You are infatuated.
2007-06-25 09:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋