A few nights ago, I attended a leaving do for a guy I know really well. He was drunk and suggested we all go to a lap-dancing club. I was pretty drunk too and all of us (7 in all) decided to go.
While there, I had two lap-dances, one in private. It was a contact lap-dance, in that she was allowed to touch me but this only involved gyrating and dancing on my lap. For neither lap-dance, was I in any way turned on.
However, in the private lap-dance, to my eternal shame, there was minimal touching of her on my part. Once that lap-dance was over and I handed her the money, I immediately had a sick feeling in my stomach. We left the club and I was re-assured by one other guy that it wasn't cheating and that he was going to ring his girlfriend the next day and they would laugh about it.
I'm with the girl for 4 months and am absolutely infatuated/in love with her. If I tell her, I fear she should break up with me.I vow never to go again.Should I just put it down to experience or tell her?
2007-06-24
07:14:08
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