1Met a guy who is 33 yrs and I am 28yrs
2We had sex on the second date.
3There was major chemistry/and lots of attraction .It felt right, to have sex
4This is the first guy, I have ever had sex this early. I have had past 2 relationships, which lasted 3-6mos and never slept with them.
5I can seriously say, there was lots of ENERGY when we met, and magic.
6We discussed about our past relationships in great detail.
7His ex cheated on him, and he caught her red handed.
8He has been dating since his breakup, which, was about a year ago
9He has never felt a connection such as with me.
10He does appear to be a gentlman, never pressured me once
11When we had sex, he held me all night long, and we talked softly about what our fav cereals and celebs are
12I was sleeping at his place multiple times during the past month
13He introduced me to one of his friends, who is his roommate
14We cooked together many times.
15We had De Ja Vu moments, such as I read his mind before he would mention what he was thinking
16There was a moment, when we were together and didn’t have sex.
17There was a moment, that he thought he offended me, over a misunderstanding, he got a hold of me the next day -- and when no response from me, he thought I was about to dump him.
18We have mutual friends
19We are very private about us seeing eachother.
20After 4 weeks of seeing eachother, I said to him "that I care about you" and he just FREAKED OUT.
21I freaked out, coz I never have sex this early on, and felt vulnarable.
22He noticed, that I am being anxious on the relationship part.
23Since, then, he would reply to my phone calls or messages w/delays, not how they used to be.
24I have stepped aside, and am giving him some space to himself, and coz I need to think over things myself.
25After a week and half, I get a text from him saying “hello”. I responded back to his message 2 days later w/just a hello. He messaged me back saying, “he is feeling really upset right now”. I replied back saying, “why”
26Why won’t he pick up the phone and call me, instead of texting me?
27You think he is wanting to dump me?
28What could be the reason he is being upset?
29Do you think, he has had me on his mind a lot? Do you think, he is going to say that he is falling for me?
2007-06-06
03:34:56
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