We haven't even been married for a year yet. We had an instance of physical abuse in the past, about 4 years ago, and he has claims to have taken anger management classes. He is moving to a new base very far away from where I have been living, we were preparing for the move, and I "snapped" when he told me that I couldn't see one of my friends before we left-I told him that I refuse to make the move with him. He has been demeaning to me, even in front of friends and family, and he is very controlling and manipulative. He claims that he "sees" this now, but didn't before. His father does the same things that he's been doing, but to a much greater degree, to his mother. I don't want to end up like her. He left the area in which that I've been living to pack his apartment this morning. I told him that I need "space", and that we both need professional help before we can even think about our relationship. Has anyone been in a situation like this? Can we save our marriage?
2007-05-31
01:16:30
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