I have often wondered if all the attention one gets from having beauty, talent or intelligence can spoil ones soul and lead to grandiose delusions about human worth. Sometimes mediocrity can be a blessing because it allows growth of a more accurate self perception, intrinsically, within what you, yourself, values. Is Paris Hilton really happy? Is it really that fun to base your self worth on anything that isn't earned? The rules change so often and do we really pay attention? We reward worthless attractive people for their selfishness. We also reward talented heroin addicts for their brilliant albums. (Wow, we reward people for internal disease BUT THEY appear to be, what, is this success?) Now we have humble, real people walking around, healthy minds and souls. They are happy to avoid the spotlight. Is this a function of healthy behavior? Maybe those who yearn for the limelight (in some cases, not all) like those who end up in power, in control, on top, are ego impaired, unhealthy.
2007-05-19
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