I have been married for over a year now. I started to be sexually active since 18 years old and had high sex drive since. I had several sex partners before my marriage.
Problem is I think my sex drive is still high, but not towards my husband.
Although he have to goods and stamina, but he does not really give me pleasure. Sometimes it's painful and after each session, I'm usually sore and slightly torn below as his penis is thick and long. He does a lot of foreplay but unfortunately it does not really arouse me. I only give in because it's a husband's right to demand sex. I can't achieve orgasm even with Oral. I hate to advise him much because I'm afraid it'll hurt his ego that his skills is poor. And I avoid telling him of my past experiences. His foreplay is unskilled and instead of making me feel aroused at my sensitive "areas" It tickles and soon after, it becomes numb. I tried subtle hints not to concentrate in one area too long but he does not get the hint. What can I do?
2007-05-03
17:41:13
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