My husband has a hard time with emotions, anger, and loosing his temper. And he puts so much emphasis on what he DOES for someone, like opening car doors, sending me flowers, giving me massages, etc.And will often say in pride no other guys do that stuff for women, and that's how i show you that I care. But what he fails to understand is that, all of that stuff means nonthing if he is yelling at me in anger, throwing things at me and hitting things, and cursing around me in anger. I don't know what to do, i feel like he's afraid to see his REAL side, maybe this is why he only see himself and the THINGS that he does. Why does he put so much emphasis on what he DOES instead of how he behaves and acts?
2007-04-23
04:28:45
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ilih2006
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Marriage & Divorce