I am in an utter depression, just so sad as my girlfriend/ex got married 2 months ago. We were together 4 years and she moved back to her country (ecuador) in late 2005, so we were long distance the last year. I heard in Jan that she was engaged and she got married in Feb to some guy she had been "dating" for 4 months. I went there tried to convince her to change her mind and marry me, but at that point she wouldn't, just said she already had too many plans made. I think she just got obsessed with geting married, didnt think I would do it. Since her marriage, she has emailed my mom many times, telling her that she cries for me all the time bcs. she knows I am suffering/sad. She says she is trying to make her marriage work, but that she always cries for me and is sad bcs she thinks about me and it makes her upset. She called me after her wedding crying, and then again called me yesterday. Why is she doing this? I love her, but why? Is she upset for me or upset for her decision?
2007-04-18
04:23:24
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robert7
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Marriage & Divorce