My best friend and boyfriend of two years is leaving in a few months to serve an LDS mission. He will be gone for two years, and I won't be able to communicate with him beyond hand-written letters. Worst of all, when he comes back he will have nothing to do with me. The shame of marrying a non-mormon would be too great. It will be as though he has died.
I want to go on and love other guys. I want to date and have fun, and just move on from this relationship. But, he's the first guy that I've loved and our relationship is perfect. My naive beliefs were that love and hard work build a relationship, and religion only plays a minor role to enhance trust and interest in one another. I never thought that I would be rejected because of my spirituality until he told me that we could never be wed.
Our situation seems so archaic and cold. How can I deal with his departure and not harbor ill feelings toward him and his religion?
He still loves me very much, and I love him as well.
2007-04-15
15:14:44
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Robin H
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