Here is the thing - it's not a good place now, our marriage. Without going into much detail - we lived in different rooms for 2 years. My husband did not even try to be physical and explained it because it was my fault as I moved out of our room. Okay, after we had therapy I moved back to our room. Nothing changed. Some people say "why don't you take control and put your leg on him". Well, easy to say, but I have no desire because I am used to feel like a furniture. I mean, he never showed any desire before. The worst is that I am the one, who tries to talk. Every time I talk to him, he sends me on a guild trip. I wrote him the letter, suggesting to go back to the counsellor. He does not bother to reply. Is he waiting for me to go up the wall so I leave? Is it just that he does not want to take any responsibility and just wants to be the victim, when I leave?
2007-04-13
12:57:18
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Alyssa Macey
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Marriage & Divorce