Why are most so $hitty on the inside? Seriously, I guess this is the case with most attractive men, regardless of sexual orientation, but since I've mostly experienced this with gay men, I feel compelled to point it out. All of the attractive gay men I've met have either been junkies, users, liars, only interested in sex, narcissists, completely superficial, etc. I've gotten to the point now that even if an attractive guy approaches me, if he even sounds remotely superficial or sketchy, I totally get turned off and can't deal with him bc my experiences have taught me that bc he's attractive, he most likely thinks the world will kiss his @$$. Sadly, this is often true in our community, even if he is a total @$$hole. I think the gay community needs a wake-up call...instead of promoting "hotness" as the most important aspect of life, we should really try to cultivate meaningful lives, lives of compassion and service rather than sex and drugs. Any thoughts?
2007-04-03
17:40:17
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toobland22
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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender