I don't want smoking in my life. When I met this person, I didn't know that this person was a closet smoker. As we became more involved, I noticed that the person would smoke rarely and radomly. You know, when drinking, or sometimes a co-worker would offer one. When we got engaged, this person promised and quit smoking. I know it doesn't sound like much, but since the engagement, this person has broken promises and lied to me about not smoking and quiting smoking. Trust me the lying has been addressed, but the smoking remains like this. This person has chosen to smoke whenever without regard for my feelings towards the issue. I know I'm making a mountain out of a mole hill, but what if it translates to other areas of concern? I love this person a lot and this person has so many great qualities that outweght this. I guess it is a personal choice. I never wanted to date or be married that someone who smoked at all. Should I just get over it? Thanks for your opinion.
2007-03-28
02:07:16
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