my husband and i have been married for almost two years. before we were married, he cheated on my with his ex girlfriend. i forgave him and worked at building trust again, only to find out that after we had our baby, he was seeing his coworker and having an affair with her (no actual intercourse though) for 6 months... while i'm at home, taking care of the baby. he has also been sending dirty comments and messages to my sister - who also did not bother to tell me, but is married w/ child. she did not act on them.
so my question is, should i stay or should i go? the final decision is mine, of course, but i'm just wanting some insight. we have two children and he is a wonderful father, husband (minus the cheating) and friend. he said he would change and he would do anything i wanted, but he said that he wouldn't do it again the last time. recently, we decided to go for an open marriage. it's NOT the other girls that bother me, it's the lying.
2007-03-28
16:32:55
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