Okay, here is the situation. My husband is an older man, with four grown kids from his previous marriage. I have wanted kids my entire life. I love children, and having my own was just something that felt right. He had had a vasectomy, and when I found out, I was devastated. However, he knew how much having my own children meant to me, and so he went under the knife again to get it reversed. We now have a nine-month-old son. Here is where my question comes in: Is it selfish of me to ask him for another after our little guy is a couple years old? My husband didn't want more kids, but he sacrificed for me and now he is in love with and completely devoted to our son. He actually cries sometimes just watching him play because he says he is such a miracle. I want two children of my own, but is it my turn to sacrifice now, and accept that I will only have my one beautiful boy? What do you think? Serious answers only, please. Thanks in advance!!!!
2007-03-20
20:55:53
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Lady Thompson
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