my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. we live together. He has suffered from depression for years even before I met him, and since the beginning of our relationship it has caused him to not be able to hold down a job and function. He's anti social, and it worries me. I love him very much, but i really wonder if he is good for me, I'm trying to go back to school and I have been working and paying the bills. When we talk about things he is quick to bring up my faults, when I don't even think they are on the same scale. we all have our faults. He complains that I don't show him love and cuddle or anything, and honestly, I'm not attracted to him when he is this way, I want a man, not a blubbering baby. But when we met, his tender side is what attracted me to him. am I just a dumb ***** that doesn't know what I want? or is this really a problem of his and he needs to fix it? I'm at a loss, I just know that it makes me depressed and miserable.
2007-03-18
23:44:20
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