Well, this happened near the start of our relationship. She had told me she once was in love with a guy she always saw at powwows (Native American get-togethers), and had told him the last time she saw him. She hadn't seen him in 2 years, but she said she wanted to talk to him when (and if) they met. I told her that he could have changed completely (which he had, he's in the army, and is completely different) since they last met. She said that she might kiss him, and that I should be OK with it or just leave her if I chose. Turns out she never met him and heard he was so different, she no longer has this "need". I have been with her for a year and 3 months now, and I still have misgivings of trust (since she did stuff with her girlfriends - she's bi - and her mom hates it when I tell her I don't like her sleeping at her friends' houses still, 'cause she doesn't know). Sometimes she included me, but stuff has happened that degrades my trust of her. What can I do to rebuild it?
2007-03-17
05:21:54
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